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The Scariest Thing For Every Guitarist

Jun 07, 2025

 

Hey fellow Life Long Guitarists, 

The scariest moment in any guitarist’s life isn’t a fast solo or a weird chord voicing. It’s this:

You’re at a friend’s house. Or a music store. Or a party. Someone finds out you play guitar. They hand you one and say, “Play something.”

And you freeze.

Not because you can’t play. You’ve been practicing. You’ve been working on scales, techniques, even theory.

But you don’t have anything to play.

You mumble something like, “I’m just working on some stuff,” and hand the guitar back. Embarrassed. Frustrated. Secretly wishing you could wow the room with a song or two.

I’ve been there. Many times.


The Illusion of Progress

This has nothing to do with how long you’ve been playing. Or how seriously you study. It’s about how we approach the instrument.

As guitarists, we love rabbit holes. Technique. Fretboard navigation. Exotic scales. The thrill of mastering some rare fusion lick we found on YouTube at 1:00am.

But here’s the strange truth:

We spend so much time developing skills that aren’t musical.

Drummers don’t do this as much. Even the most technical drummers can drop into a groove, right now, and make it sound like music.

But with guitar? It’s entirely possible to get better and better at not being able to play anything.

That realization hit me hard.

I was neck-deep in a personal project I called “Keystone Licks.” The idea was simple: every genre has a handful of core licks that form the DNA of everything else. Find those, and you unlock the genre.

I spent months collecting, analyzing, and categorizing these licks. I told myself I was making real progress.

But when it came time to actually play, all I had were fragments. A bag of skills with no clear outlet. I could explain the lick. I could demonstrate it slowly. But I couldn’t play music with it.

And that’s the illusion.

We think we’re getting better—because we’re working hard. Because we’re learning more. Because our fingers are faster.

But real progress means being able to make music. To share something. To respond to a rhythm. To express emotion through sound, not just technique.

Without that, it’s just intellectual exercise. Finger gymnastics. Organized noise.


Turning Practice into Music

Imagine spending years collecting rare Lego pieces. You hunt for vintage sets, dig through bins at flea markets, and finally organize them into pristine little drawers.

But you never build anything.

You’ve got the bricks, the colors, even the rare parts. But when it comes time to actually make something, you’re stuck. Staring at the parts, not knowing how to begin.

That’s what we do with guitar.

We collect licks. We polish techniques. We organize them into mental bins labeled “blues,” “fusion,” “minor pentatonic,” and “Dorian mode.”

But we don’t build music.

That turning point for me was realizing I didn’t need more bricks—I needed to start building.

What if I took one lick and applied it to a real song? Not a practice drill. A song with a beginning, middle, and end.

Suddenly, the lick had purpose. It lived inside a structure. I could feel where it fit, where it didn’t, how to shape it.

That’s when the real skill started to develop: making musical decisions in time.

Because music doesn’t wait.

A song has a tempo. A beat. You don’t get to pause and scroll through your internal catalog of ideas.

You’ve got to reach into the bucket, pull something out, and make it fit right now.

That’s the skill we ignore the most—and the one we need the most.


The Challenge: Connect It to a Song

So here’s my challenge to both of us:

Whatever you’re working on—a new lick, a scale shape, some fancy picking pattern—connect it to a song.

Don’t wait until “someday” when you’ve mastered it. That day doesn’t come.

Pick a tune. Any tune. Apply the thing. See what works. See what breaks. Adjust. Repeat.

This is how we close the gap between practice and music.

It won’t be easy. But it will be real.

If you’ve ever felt insecure because you “should” be able to play something and you can’t… this is the way through.

For me, that path looks like solo fingerstyle arrangements, mixing in bits of improvisation, and finding ways to express myself beyond just clean technique.

I don’t want to just know things. I want to make music.

Maybe you do too.

Let’s practice like it.


Life Long Guitarist Program Update

A heartfelt thank you to everyone who signed up for the Lifelong Guitarist program recently—we’re completely sold out and then some.

I took on more students than I originally planned, thanks to a lighter workload this summer at the university. 

If you’re interested in joining the next group, the best thing you can do is join the waitlist.

Last time, the program filled up in about three days—this time, it only took two.

We’ll likely open again in mid to late July, and waitlist members will be the first to hear when spots become available.

Join the waitlist

 

Talk soon,

Andre Fludd
Lifelong Guitarist

Talk soon,

Andre Fludd
Lifelong Guitarist

 

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